Perspective

You know, sometimes we are caught in a whirlwind of activities which are beyond our control and then we just hang on and make the best of it. If we were in our own little world, everything would still be hunky dory but when ppl come and mess with our heads then our perspective changes.

And ppl will come and mess with our heads. Why? Becos they have to have their 2 cents worth. And when they do this, it spoils our perspective of things.

For example, some ppl are happily practising for something that means the world to them. The key word is HAPPY. Then comes Mr So-and-So who makes a comment about how useless your effort is and then you become completely unravelled. And what was the purpose of the comment? Nothing - just had to have a say. So the poor soul who was HAPPILY working so hard has his/her world crumble before his/her eyes.

So people, our job is to learn to deal with these Misters So-and So. We need to activate a monitor for these ppl and learn to activate our shield to guard against such demeaning and demoralising comments.

It's hard but that is the reality of life. SO, the sooner we learn this, the faster we protect ourselves. But if we let the wall or sheild be a permanent feature in our lives, it may harm us in return. It's hard to balance. Think about it.